Three children with their hands folded in prayer
Support for families

One person is sentenced. The whole family does the time.

The Butterfly Project supports homeless and low-income families, especially those affected by the incarceration of a parent, a child, or a loved one.

The butterfly effect
One act of kindness can set off a ripple that lasts a lifetime.

A meal. A backpack of school supplies. A warm coat on the first cold morning. Each one reaches a child, then a parent, then a whole family, and the effect keeps going long after the day it happened.

Why it matters

Children carry what their families go through.

5.1 million

children in the United States have had a parent in jail or prison at some point.

22%

lower family income during a parent’s incarceration, and 15% lower after the parent comes home.

3 times

as likely to attempt suicide: students experiencing homelessness compared with stably housed youth.

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Donate

Your gift starts the butterfly effect.

Every gift goes toward food, school supplies, hygiene items, warming and cooling items, and financial education for families who need them. We serve over 1,000 individuals each year, and we need your help to change lives.

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Prefer to give something you can hold? Our wishlist lists the items families need most. All items must be brand new. If you would not give it to your neighbor or a friend, please do not give it to a family or child in need.

These items are needed year-round. We need approximately 200 units of each item every quarter, and we kindly ask that all items be full size rather than travel size.

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Cleaning Supplies
  • Alcohol Wipes
  • Bleach
  • Broom (Long Handle + Dustpan)
  • Clorox Toilet Bowl Cleaner (+ Toilet Brush)
  • Disinfectant Wipes
  • Dishwashing Soap (Palmolive & Dawn)
  • Dishwasher Tablets (Cascade or Finish)
  • Double-Sided Sponges (Scrub Daddy/Mommy or equivalent)
  • Febreze Air Freshener
  • Lysol All Purpose Cleaner
  • Lysol Disinfectant Spray
  • O-Cedar-Style Mop & Mop Bucket
  • Paper Towels
  • Pine-Sol
  • Scrubbing Bubbles Tub Cleaner (disinfectant kind)
  • Swiffer Duster
  • Swiffer Mop
  • Swiffer Pads
  • Toilet Tissue
  • Toilet Brush with Holder
  • Trash Bags (small for bathrooms, large for kitchen)
  • Trash Can (small for bathrooms, large for kitchen, with foot pedal)
  • Windex or Similar Glass Cleaner
  • Vacuum Cleaner
Hair-Care Items
  • Satin and Silk Bonnets
  • Brushes (boar and paddle)
  • Barrettes for Little Girls
  • Combs (wide tooth and rat tail)
  • Satin and Silk Durags
  • Gel (Eco Style, Ampro Pro Styl or similar)
  • Grease (Blue Magic, Sulfur 8, BB Grease, or similar)
  • Elastic Hair Ties
  • Leave-In Conditioner (Creme of Nature or Bask N Lather Co)
  • Shampoo & Conditioner (Creme of Nature or Bask N Lather Co)
  • Scrunchies
  • Satin and Cotton Headscarves
Hygiene Items
  • Body Wash / Soap
  • Deodorant (male & female)
  • Floss (picks and classic string)
  • Lotion
  • Petroleum Jelly
  • Mouthwash
  • Toothbrushes
  • Toothbrush Case
  • Toothbrush Holder
  • Toothpaste
  • Loofah (for shower)
  • Shaving Cream
  • Shaving Razors
  • Menstrual Pads (all levels)
  • Tampons (all levels)
  • Incontinence Underwear (all sizes)
  • Diapers and Pull-Ups (all sizes)
Kitchen & Cooking
  • Cutlery (spoons, forks, knives), plus plastic cutlery
  • Dinnerware Set (bowls, plates, cups)
  • Pots & Pans
  • Insulated Bag (for people who rely on food pantries and food events)
  • Ziploc Bags (all sizes)
  • Parchment Paper
  • Aluminum Foil
  • Baking Sheets / Pans
Laundry Supplies
  • Dryer Sheets
  • Fabric Softener
  • Laundry Detergent (liquid, pods preferred, or powder)
  • Laundry Basket (horizontal with handles preferred)
Linens & Bedding
School Supplies

We serve 200 children at any given time. All backpacks must be clear, per the Richmond City Schools clear backpack policy.

Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.2 Corinthians 9:7 (NIV)
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Our team

Started by someone who lived it.

The Butterfly Project began with one person's experience of growing up without her parents because of parental incarceration, and with how few places there were to turn.

Our story

Why we began.

Our founder, Chyna Nyarku, grew up without her parents because of parental incarceration. As she came to understand her own experience, she saw how few organizations and resources exist for children and families living with it.

She is far from alone. A 2016 report from the Annie E. Casey Foundation estimated that 5.1 million children in the United States have had a parent in jail or prison at some point.

Still, these children are easy to overlook. Many carry the absence quietly, held back by shame and stigma, and few have a place built for them.

The Butterfly Project exists to be that place. We offer practical help for the whole family, and a reminder to every child that what happened to their parent is not who they are.

Faith is at the heart of this work. Chyna’s Christian faith is a large part of her journey, and she considers herself a living testimony: she would not have been able to achieve anything without God and her community. The Butterfly Project is a way of passing that same grace and community forward to the children and families who need it.

“The LORD has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.”Psalm 126:3 (NIV)
Mental health

The weight children carry.

Having a parent incarcerated is one of the hardest things a child can go through, and one of the least talked about. It can take a real toll on a child's mental health, including depression, anxiety, and thoughts of suicide.

  • Grief with no name

    A parent who is gone but still alive is a loss many people do not treat as grief. Children are left to carry it without the comfort that other losses usually bring.

  • Shame and silence

    Stigma teaches children to hide where their parent is. Keeping that secret can leave a child isolated, which makes depression and anxiety more likely.

  • An unsettled home

    Changing caregivers, losing household income, and worrying about food or rent keep a child's mind and body on high alert.

  • Too little support

    Few programs are built for these children, so many go without a trusted adult or counselor to talk to.

What the research shows

A large study of more than 120,000 middle and high school students in Minnesota found that young people with a parent currently incarcerated were roughly 2.5 to 4 times as likely as their peers to report internalizing symptoms (the kind of emotional distress that includes sadness and anxiety), self-injury, thoughts of suicide, and suicide attempts. Only about 30% of them had received any mental health treatment.

The same research found that feeling close to a parent or caregiver was protective. These risks are not a prediction, and they are not a flaw in the child. They are what can happen when a young person goes through something painful without enough support, and a community can change that.

The Butterfly Project is not a counseling or crisis service. We help with everyday needs like food, school supplies, hygiene items, and warming and cooling items, and we offer financial education, so that families have more room to breathe and children have one more caring presence in their corner.

How incarceration, homelessness, and mental health connect

These hardships rarely come one at a time. The National Institute of Justice reports that family income was about 22% lower while a parent was incarcerated and 15% lower after the parent came home, and that children of incarcerated parents were less likely to have stable housing.

A study of the Fragile Families data, which followed more than 3,700 children, found that recent paternal incarceration was associated with a higher risk of child homelessness at age five. The link was concentrated among Black children, who had 144% higher odds. Family finances, social support, and mothers’ capacities explained about 15% of the link. When substance use and domestic abuse were also taken into account, the link for recent incarceration was no longer statistically significant, which shows how many hardships can overlap in one family.

Homelessness carries its own mental health weight. CDC survey data, as summarized by SchoolHouse Connection, show that high school students experiencing homelessness reported more sadness, hopelessness, self-harm, and suicide attempts than housed peers, and they were three times as likely to attempt suicide as stably housed youth. A child who has both a parent in jail or prison and an unstable home may carry all of these at once, and that is why we try to meet practical needs and add caring adults to a child’s life.

The team

The people behind the project.

Chyna Nyarku

Founder and CEO

Chyna founded The Butterfly Project after growing up without her parents because of parental incarceration. She leads the organization with one clear purpose: no child with an incarcerated parent should have to look for help that is not there. She brings a background in project management, program management, and marketing to the work. She has also served as a math tutor at Ettrick Elementary and at Bellevue Elementary. She credits God and her community for every step of her journey.

Francis Nyarku

STEM Engineer And CFO

Francis is a STEM engineer and serves as our Chief Financial Officer (CFO). He has taught etiquette and engineering at Saint Michael’s Episcopal School, and he is an expert drummer, audio engineer, and horticulturist. He brings that background to the team’s planning and to the way we share knowledge with families.

Watch

Stories behind the work.

Chyna’s Journey: The Power of Higher Education

Featuring Chyna Nyarku. A short documentary about resilience, personal growth, and how education can change a life.

MUSE Creative Awards 2026 Gold WinnerMUSE Creative Awards 2026 Silver Winner

2026 MUSE Creative Awards: Gold and Silver Winner. Listed on the MUSE website under Chyna Rose.

HomeAgain Richmond: helping families experiencing homelessness

Featuring Chyna Nyarku. Courtesy of WRIC 8News.

Join us

A small team with a big purpose.

If this work speaks to you, there is a place for you. Volunteer, partner with us, or donate to help support the mission.

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Get Help

Find the help you need.

Shelter, food, repairs, mental health support, and rides. Pick a topic below. If you are in crisis right now, use the numbers at the bottom of this page.

Shelter Within The GRCoC

How the Greater Richmond and Crater systems work, who is in them, and the numbers to call first.

All Other Shelter

Private and faith-based organizations outside the GRCoC and CACH, such as Yeshua’s House and Blossym Hearts Home.

Construction

Home repair and building partners, including Habitat for Humanity, HomeAid, and the ToolBank.

Food

Pantries, community fridges, weekly meals, and fresh produce around Richmond.

Mental Health

Crisis lines and local support, including VAMH Connect.

Someone I Love Is Incarcerated

Organizations that keep children connected to parents who are incarcerated, support families, and offer faith and community.

Transportation

Fare-free buses, paratransit, Medicaid rides, and bikes.

Housing hardship and stigma often continue after a family member comes home, as PBS NewsHour reported in 2020. You are not the only one navigating this.

In a crisis

Call or text now.

988 Suicide And Crisis LifelineFree, 24 hours a day. Call or text 988.
988
211 VirginiaFree referrals to local services.
211
EmergencyIf someone is in immediate danger.
911
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.Psalm 46:1 (NIV)
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All Other Shelter

Shelter options outside the GRCoC and CACH.

These organizations are private or faith-based, so they set their own rules and are not reached through the Homeless Connection Line. Call or message them directly to ask who they serve and whether they have space.

Blossym Hearts Home

A community outreach organization and shelter option for low-income families, singles, and senior citizens. It also hosts clothing and community giveback events with hygiene supplies and free resource navigation with VAMH Connect.

ServesLow-Income FamiliesSinglesSenior Citizens
OffersShelter OptionWarm ClothingHygiene SuppliesResource Navigation
Richmond · Direct 804-314-1683 · Office 804-914-7590 · blossymhearts@gmail.com

Shineforth (Formerly UMFS)

A Virginia nonprofit serving children, teens, and families, with private day schools for students with disabilities, treatment foster care, residential treatment for youth, adoption services, and family support.

ServesChildrenTeensFamilies
OffersFoster CareResidential TreatmentAdoption ServicesPrivate Day SchoolsFamily Support
3900 W. Broad St., Richmond

Yeshua’s House

A transitional home that helps women move toward emotional and financial stability, with housing, counseling, financial education, and emotional support.

ServesWomen Leaving Abuse Or HomelessnessMothers
OffersTransitional HousingCounselingFinancial Education
Chesterfield County · 804-605-3841

Looking for shelter through the regional system instead? See Shelter Within The GRCoC.

Know a resource we should add? Tell Us About It.

Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.Psalm 91:1 (NIV)
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Food

Food, fridges, and weekly meals.

Meals and groceries around Richmond, from 24-hour community fridges to weekly feedings. Hours change, so check each group’s page or call before you go.

FeedMore Agency Locator

Central Virginia’s food bank network. Use the locator to find a pantry or meal site near you.

ServesAnyone
OffersFood PantriesMeal Sites
Central Virginia

Justin J. Davis Heart Foundation

Promotes heart health in underserved communities through its Healthy Hearts and Hygiene initiative, with healthy food, fresh produce, hygiene products, and a community fridge at Ettrick Park.

ServesUnderserved Communities
OffersFoodHygiene ProductsCommunity FridgeHeart Health Education
Petersburg and South Chesterfield · 804-943-6898

Moments Of Hope Outreach: Saturday Servings

A weekly outreach every Saturday, 12–1 PM, rain or shine, at The Light Community Church, 601 Azalea Ave. It has a mobile pantry with canned goods, fresh produce, bread, and toiletries, plus free health screenings from nurses and pharmacists, and bike repairs.

ServesNeighbors In Richmond And Henrico
OffersMobile PantryHealth ScreeningsBike Shop
Weekly, Saturdays · Resource Center 804-584-7380, weekdays 9 AM–4 PM

Project Reach Richmond

A Richmond group featured by WTVR for delivering free food and clothes to people in need.

ServesPeople In Need
OffersFree FoodFree Clothing
Read the WTVR story for details

Richmond Friends Of The Homeless

Serving meals since 1986. A weekday lunch program in south Richmond and Jackson Ward and Gilpin Court, weekend meals in south Richmond, and Breakfast and a Book, which gives each child a breakfast and a book to take home. Call for times and sites.

ServesVeteransSeniorsFamiliesPeople Experiencing Homelessness
OffersWeekday LunchWeekend MealsBreakfast And A Book
Richmond · 804-608-0971

RVA Community Fridges

Volunteer-run fridges across Richmond that are open 24 hours a day with free food. Take what you need and leave what you can. Most also have a pantry with nonperishables and hygiene items. The group’s Instagram has a map of every fridge location, and the first fridge is at 2025 Venable Street in Church Hill.

ServesAnyone
OffersFree Food 24/7Fresh ProducePantry ItemsHygiene Items
Richmond · Instagram @rvacommunityfridges · Facebook: RVA Community Fridges

Shalom Farms

A nonprofit farm that grows and shares fresh food. Its Mobile Market visits locations across Richmond and offers a 50% SNAP match through the Virginia Fresh Match Program. Find market locations on its website. Volunteers are welcome April through November.

ServesNeighbors Across Richmond
OffersMobile MarketSNAP MatchProduce Rx Through Partner Clinics
Northside Farm, 1311 Westwood Ave · 804-220-0025

Know a resource we should add? Tell Us About It.

For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in.Matthew 25:35 (NIV)
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Construction

Building, repair, and the people who donate their skills.

Safe, stable housing often starts with a roof that does not leak. These organizations repair homes, lend tools, and connect builders with nonprofits.

HomeAid National Capital Region

Connects builders and housing industry professionals with nonprofits working to end homelessness. Its builders and trade partners donate labor, materials, and expertise to renovate or build shelters, housing, and other nonprofit spaces.

ServesPeople Experiencing Or At Risk Of Homelessness
OffersShelter RenovationHousing Construction
Chantilly, Virginia · Works through partner nonprofits

NAWIC Richmond

The Richmond chapter of the National Association of Women in Construction, and a partner of The Butterfly Project.

ServesWomen In Construction
OffersNetworkingCommunity Partnership
Richmond

Richmond Community ToolBank

Lends tools and equipment to nonprofits and community projects, so more of every dollar goes to the mission. Tools are also available to the public at a low rental cost.

ServesNonprofitsVolunteersCommunity Groups
OffersTool LendingVolunteer Projects
Richmond

Richmond Metropolitan Habitat For Humanity

Its Critical Home Repair program fixes roofs, windows, exterior doors, porches, steps, ramps, gutters, and siding, plus interior accessibility and life-safety repairs. You must own and live in the home, have homeowners insurance, not be at risk of foreclosure, be 18 or older, and be under the income limit. Exterior repairs are available in select localities, based on grant funding.

ServesIncome-Qualified Homeowners
OffersCritical Home RepairAccessibility Repairs
Chesterfield County and City of Richmond · 804-232-7001 · 2281 Dabney Rd, Suite A

Know a resource we should add? Tell Us About It.

Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.Psalm 127:1 (NIV)
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Mental Health

Support for the weight families carry.

Homelessness and a loved one’s incarceration can wear on a child and on a whole household. If you are in crisis now, call or text 988, any hour.

988 Suicide And Crisis Lifeline

Free, confidential support at any hour for anyone in emotional distress or thinking about suicide. Call or text 988.

ServesAnyone
OffersCrisis SupportCall Or Text
24 hours a day

Chesterfield Mental Health Support Services

Chesterfield County’s mental health support services. See its page for current programs and how to reach them.

ServesChesterfield Residents
OffersMental Health Services
Chesterfield County

Richmond Behavioral Health Authority

Richmond’s community behavioral health provider. Its community resources page lists emergency and support services.

ServesRichmond Residents
OffersBehavioral Health ServicesCommunity Resources
City of Richmond

VAMH Connect

Free resource navigation that connects people with local programs and other providers. It works alongside Blossym Hearts Home at community events.

ServesIndividuals And Families
OffersResource NavigationProvider Connections
Richmond area · Find them on Facebook
The research

Why this matters for children.

In the CDC’s 2021 Youth Risk Behavior Survey (CDC MMWR), unstably housed high school students were much more likely to report suicide risk: 44.9% had seriously considered suicide and 38.2% had attempted it, compared with 21.8% and 9.4% of stably housed students. The authors note the data cannot show cause. A psychologist interviewed by PBS NewsHour explains how losses such as a parent’s incarceration can shape lasting trauma (PBS NewsHour, 2025), and PBS NewsHour, 2021 describes why children need special support when a parent is in jail or prison.

Know a resource we should add? Tell Us About It.

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.Psalm 34:18 (NIV)
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Transportation

Getting where you need to go.

A ride to an appointment, a shelter intake, or a job interview can decide whether help reaches you. These options can ease the trip.

GRTC Bus Service

Greater Richmond Transit Company buses are fare-free, currently through at least May 2027. Check its site for routes and schedules.

ServesEveryone
OffersFare-Free Buses
Richmond and Henrico

GRTC CARE Paratransit

Door-to-door service for people whose disability prevents them from using the regular bus. See the page for eligibility and how to apply.

ServesPeople With Disabilities
OffersParatransit Rides
GRTC service area

Moments Of Hope Bike Shop

Donated bikes are refurbished and given as transportation to people on a waiting list, and repairs are offered at Saturday Servings.

ServesNeighbors In Richmond And Henrico
OffersRefurbished BikesBike Repair
The Light Community Church, 601 Azalea Ave · Saturdays, 12–1 PM

Virginia Medicaid Transportation

Medicaid members can get rides to covered medical appointments. The state transportation site lists how to schedule a ride and the numbers to call.

ServesMedicaid Members
OffersRides To Medical Appointments
Statewide

Know a resource we should add? Tell Us About It.

The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.Psalm 121:8 (NIV)
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Get Help

Someone I Love Is Incarcerated

When someone is in jail or prison, the whole family feels it. These organizations help children stay connected to their parents, give families people who understand, and offer faith and community through the hardest seasons.

A Better Day Than Yesterday

A Richmond-based nonprofit founded by LeTeisha Gordon that supports children affected by a parent’s incarceration with a trauma-informed approach. It offers mentoring and after-school programs at the Southside Community Center with Richmond Parks and Recreation, trust-building activities like rock climbing and group bike rides, and a twice-monthly “straight talk” program for girls.

ServesChildren Affected By A Parent’s Incarceration
OffersMentoringAfter-School ProgramsTrauma-Informed Support
Richmond

Assisting Families Of Inmates (AFOI)

A Richmond-based nonprofit, founded in 1978, that supports families and children affected by a loved one’s incarceration. It offers visitation support, family support, and children’s programs, plus video visits from visitor centers across Virginia and from home. A Visitation Assistance Fund subsidizes video visits, and the Virginia Department of Corrections video visit rate dropped to 12 cents per minute on July 1, 2025.

ServesFamilies And Children Affected By Incarceration
OffersVideo VisitsVisitation Assistance FundFamily SupportChildren’s Programs
Richmond

FatherHood Foundation Of Virginia

A 501(c)(3) nonprofit whose mission is to build stronger men for the Commonwealth of Virginia. It offers skills-based programs and events for fathers and couples on parenting, healthy relationships, and active fathering, with programs in Central Virginia, Hampton Roads, and the Blue Ridge. It began in Richmond and reports serving 3,000+ new dads.

ServesMen And FathersNew DadsCouples
OffersFatherhood ProgramsRelationship ProgramsCommunity Events
Virginia

God Behind Bars

A national prison ministry that builds faith among people in prison during incarceration and after release. It creates “satellite campuses” inside prisons with prayer teams, small groups, and membership classes. CBN reported that at least 130 people were baptized in a single week, including 90 women at a federal prison.

ServesPeople Who Are IncarceratedPeople Returning Home
OffersPrison CampusesPrayer TeamsSmall GroupsBaptisms

Prison Fellowship

A national Christian nonprofit that serves people in prison, people returning home, and their families, with programs that include Angel Tree.

ServesPeople Who Are IncarceratedPeople Returning HomeFamilies
OffersChristian MinistryFamily Support
National

Prison Fellowship: Angel Tree

Church volunteers deliver Christmas gifts to children of incarcerated parents, presented as coming from the parent along with a note, to show children they are loved, offer comfort, and share the Gospel. A parent in prison signs up their child, and the church’s coordinator contacts the child’s caregiver.

ServesChildren Of Incarcerated ParentsCaregivers
OffersChristmas GiftsChurch Partnerships
National

We Got Us Now

A nonpartisan national advocacy group led by children and young adults affected by parental incarceration. Through digital storytelling, safe and inclusive spaces, and advocacy campaigns, it works to keep families connected and to promote fairer sentencing.

ServesChildren And Young Adults Affected By Parental Incarceration
OffersStorytellingAdvocacyCommunity
National

Know a resource we should add? Tell Us About It.

Why this matters

You are not alone.

More than 5 million children in the United States have had a parent incarcerated, according to the Annie E. Casey Foundation (PBS NewsHour, 2023). Another report puts it at more than 2.7 million children with a parent in jail or prison today (PBS NewsHour, 2021).

Continue to remember those in prison as if you were together with them in prison, and those who are mistreated as if you yourselves were suffering.Hebrews 13:3 (NIV)
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FAQ

Questions we are often asked.

If you do not see your question here, we are happy to help. Call or email us anytime during business hours.

Do I need to be Christian to receive help?

No. Although we are a Christian organization, we serve all communities equally. No one deserves to suffer, regardless of race, sex, or creed, especially a child.

What does The Butterfly Project provide?

We help with food, school supplies, hygiene items, warming and cooling items, and financial education for homeless and low-income families, especially those affected by incarceration.

What is the difference between jail and prison?

Jail is run locally, by a city, county, or region. It usually holds people who have been arrested and are waiting for court, people who cannot pay bail, and people serving short sentences, generally less than a year.

Prison is run by a state or the federal government. It holds people who have been convicted and sentenced, usually to more than a year. In Virginia, state prisons are operated by the Virginia Department of Corrections.

A person may be moved from jail to prison after sentencing. Visiting rules, phone and video options, and how to send mail or money are different at each facility, so check with the facility directly. Details can vary by state. Learn more from the Bureau of Justice Statistics.

Do you provide housing or shelter?

No. We do not provide housing or financial support beyond education at this time. Our Get Help pages explain how to find shelter and other help in our region.

How do I get shelter?

In our region, shelter is reached through the hotlines or by working with a case manager. If you are experiencing homelessness or are within three days of losing your housing, call the Homeless Connection Line at 804-972-0813. Even leaving a voicemail with your contact information makes a big difference. Calling a shelter directly will not get you a spot. See Shelter Within The GRCoC for the full process.

Who do you serve?

Homeless and low-income families, especially those affected by the incarceration of a parent, a child, or a loved one. Read more on Who We Serve.

Is The Butterfly Project a counseling or crisis service?

No. If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 any hour. For an emergency, call 911. You can find local mental health support on our Mental Health page.

Are donations tax-deductible?

Yes. The Butterfly Project is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, EIN 43-2593697, and all donations are tax-deductible to the extent allowed by law.

Can I give monthly?

Yes. A monthly gift helps ensure we are consistently helping those in need. You can choose a monthly gift on our Donate page.

Do you offer refunds?

Donations are non-refundable. Every gift is put to work right away for the families we serve, so we are unable to issue refunds. If you have a question about a donation, please contact us and we will be glad to help.

I donated and received a gift in the mail. Is this for me?

Yes, it is for you! It is our way of saying thank you. We are so grateful for you!

How can I volunteer or partner with you?

We would love to hear from you! Visit Get Involved or Contact us.

How can I reach you?

Call 804-685-8801 or email info@the-butterfly-project.org, Monday through Friday, 8 AM to 4 PM. We are closed on all major holidays and on biblical holidays such as Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, and we observe a weekly Sabbath rest. We are an ecumenical Christian organization. In a fast-moving world, we believe in a culture of slowing down and resting. We are so committed to providing these resources to those in need, so that they can rest too.

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.James 1:5 (NIV)
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Education

Learn what families go through.

Videos that help you understand the experience of homelessness and incarceration, and how a community can help. We also share lessons in etiquette, finance, and STEAM to build confidence and skills for school, work, and everyday life.

Watch And Learn

Choose a topic.

Each topic is a playlist of short videos. Pick the one that fits what you want to learn today.

Children Of Incarcerated Parents

Videos that help you understand what it is like for a child to have a parent in jail or prison, and how family, friends, and neighbors can support them.

Etiquette

Why kindness and good manners matter, and simple habits for greeting, listening, and speaking with respect at school, at work, and at home. Videos coming soon.

Finance

Money basics for everyday life, such as budgeting, saving, banking, and credit, so families can plan with confidence. Videos coming soon.

STEAM

Science, technology, engineering, arts, and math, including music, painting, drawing, and cooking, to spark curiosity and creativity at any age. Videos coming soon.

The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.Proverbs 4:7 (NIV)
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Education

Children Of Incarcerated Parents

Videos that help you understand what it is like for a child to have a parent in jail or prison.

Watch And Learn

Our video playlist.

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A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.Psalm 68:5 (NIV)
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Education

Etiquette

Why kindness and good manners matter, and how they help all of us.

Why It Matters

Etiquette is a way of showing care.

Etiquette is simply the set of habits that help people feel respected and safe around each other: how we greet someone, how we speak when we disagree, how we listen, and how we share a table or a space. It is not about being fancy or perfect.

It helps us be kinder to each other

Small, thoughtful habits like saying please and thank you, listening without interrupting, and being on time tell people they matter.

It helps us be kinder to ourselves

Knowing how to carry ourselves in a job interview, a classroom, or a new community builds confidence and opens doors.

It honors where we have been

Many of us came from places where we had to be tough to survive, and that strength got us here. Etiquette does not erase it. It is simply another skill we can add, so we can choose gentleness when we are safe.

No one is judged here. Learning etiquette is a gift we give ourselves and each other.

Videos are coming soon.
Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.Colossians 4:6 (NIV)
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Education

Finance

Videos on financial education are coming soon.

Videos are coming soon.
The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.Proverbs 21:5 (NIV)
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Education

STEAM

Science, technology, engineering, arts, and math. Learn what each one means, then watch the videos.

What It Means

STEAM is five ways of understanding the world.

STEAM stands for Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts, and Math. Together they build curiosity, confidence, and skills for school, work, and everyday life. Every one of us can learn them, at any age.

Science

Asking questions and testing ideas to understand how the world works, from the human body to the weather to the food we eat.

Technology

The tools we build and use to solve problems, from a phone or computer to learning how to stay safe and find opportunities online.

Engineering

Designing and building things that work, such as bridges, machines, and software, and learning to fix a problem step by step.

Arts

Creating and expressing ourselves. In STEAM, the arts include music, painting, drawing, and cooking, ways to heal, to tell our stories, and to bring people together.

MusicPaintingDrawingCooking

Math

Numbers, patterns, and logic that help us budget, measure, and make good decisions, in the kitchen and the classroom alike.

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For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.Proverbs 2:6 (NIV)
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Shelter Within The GRCoC

How to find shelter and housing help in our region.

If you have never had to look for shelter, the process can be confusing. This page explains how it works, who is involved, and the numbers to call first.

Numbers to know

Call these first.

Homeless Connection LineGreater Richmond and Chesterfield. For anyone without housing, or within 3 days of losing it. Mon–Fri 8 AM–9 PM, Sat–Sun 1–9 PM.
804-972-0813
Housing Resource LineGreater Richmond. For housing support, rent and utility help, or finding housing when you are more than 3 days from losing shelter. Mon–Fri 8:30 AM–4:30 PM.
804-422-5061
Housing Resource Center (Crater Region)Petersburg, Hopewell, Colonial Heights, Prince George, Dinwiddie, Emporia, Greensville, Surry and Sussex. Run by St. Joseph’s Villa. If no one answers, leave a message with your contact information.
804-722-1181
EmpowerNet Hotline24 hours, for anyone fleeing domestic violence, stalking or human trafficking.
804-612-6126
211 VirginiaConnects you to housing, food, and other local resources.
211
988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text, free, 24 hours a day. If you or someone you love is struggling, you do not have to wait for a housing outcome to reach out.
988
EmergencyIf anyone is in immediate danger.
911

Numbers and hours can change. If a call does not go through, try again or dial 211.

Looking for more help? See All Other Shelter, Food, Construction, Mental Health, and Transportation.

How it works

How do I get shelter?

Shelter beds in our region are not first come, first served at the door, and calling a shelter directly will not get you a spot.

  • 1. Call the hotline for your area

    Shelters and housing programs in the Greater Richmond Continuum of Care and the Crater Area Coalition on Homelessness take people through a shared process. The hotline is the front door to that process.

  • 2. Leave a voicemail if no one picks up

    Phone lines are busy. Leaving your name, a phone number where you can be reached, and a short description of your situation makes a real difference. It gets you on the list so you can be called back.

  • 3. Get in line, and keep your phone on

    Openings are matched to people who have gone through the process. Staff will ask questions about your household and needs, so they can connect you to the right program as space opens.

  • 4. If you already have a case manager, work with them

    A case manager can make referrals for you. Stay in touch with them and tell them if your situation or phone number changes.

The only other route is a private organization that sits outside these systems, such as some faith-based programs. Those set their own rules, so you would need to contact them directly. For nearly everyone else, this is the path, and it is the path that people who are housed today went through.

Who is who

What the GRCoC and CACH are.

A Continuum of Care, or CoC, is a group of agencies that work together on homelessness in one region. The federal government funds and organizes them. Our area is served by two.

GRCoC

Greater Richmond Continuum of Care

Serves the City of Richmond, Henrico, Chesterfield and Hanover counties, the Town of Ashland, and surrounding counties including Charles City, Goochland, New Kent and Powhatan. Homeward is the lead agency. It runs the shared data system and coordinates the process that connects people to shelter and housing. The front doors are the Homeless Connection Line, street outreach, and the EmpowerNet Hotline for people fleeing violence.

Visit Homeward

CACH

Crater Area Coalition on Homelessness

Serves the cities of Petersburg, Hopewell, Colonial Heights and Emporia, and Dinwiddie, Prince George, Surry, Sussex and Greensville counties. St. Joseph’s Villa is the lead agency and leads the coordinated entry process. Flagler Housing and Homeless Services offers rapid re-housing with case management and short-term financial help. Any partner agency can point you toward the right place, then an access point follows up to match you to a program.

Read the CACH Coordinated Community Plan

Organizations In The GRCoC And What They Do

ACTSStaffs the Homeless Connection Line, connects more than 60 faith-based and community partners, and offers housing stability case management.
ServesIndividualsFamilies With Children
OffersHotline StaffingRent And Utility HelpCase ManagementWater Bill Help (Richmond)
CARITASEmergency shelter, including a winter surge shelter, plus a furniture bank and job training programs.
ServesMenWomen
OffersEmergency ShelterFurniture BankJob Training
Commonwealth Catholic CharitiesStreet outreach, permanent supportive housing, an emergency shelter fund for unhoused Petersburg-area residents, and a Youth Hub for young adults.
ServesAdultsYoung Adults 18–24
OffersStreet OutreachHousingEmergency Shelter Fund
Daily Planet Health ServicesHealth care for anyone, regardless of housing or insurance status.
ServesEveryone
OffersHealth CareDentalPharmacyStreet OutreachMedical Respite
EmpowerNet Hotline PartnersCrisis support and recovery for survivors, through Goochland Cares, Hanover Safe Place, James House, Safe Harbor, Thrive Virginia, and the YWCA of Richmond. 24-hour hotline: 804-612-6126.
ServesSurvivors Of Domestic And Sexual Violence
Offers24-Hour HotlineCrisis SupportShelterCounselingLegal Help
HomeAgainTwo round-the-clock shelters, plus bridge housing, rapid re-housing, and permanent supportive housing.
ServesMenWomenChildrenVeteransSeniors
OffersEmergency ShelterHousingMealsCase Management
HomewardLead agency for the GRCoC. Coordinates the shared process, data, and funding for the region and runs the Homeless Connection Line.
ServesEveryone Seeking Help
OffersHomeless Connection LineCoordination
Housing Families FirstEmergency shelter and rapid re-housing for families, and hotline staffing. Entry is by referral only.
ServesFamilies
OffersEmergency ShelterRapid Re-Housing
Liberation Veteran ServicesCase management and support for unhoused veterans.
ServesVeterans
OffersCase Management
Richmond Behavioral Health AuthorityMental health and substance use care for Richmond residents, plus street outreach and permanent supportive housing.
ServesAdultsChildren
OffersMental Health CareSubstance Use CareStreet OutreachHousing
The Salvation ArmyEmergency shelter provider, with rent and utility assistance through its Central Virginia office.
ServesContact For Eligibility
OffersEmergency ShelterRent And Utility Help
The SPAN CenterInformation, advocacy, and services for older adults, people with disabilities, and caregivers. Staffs the hotline.
ServesOlder AdultsPeople With DisabilitiesCaregivers
OffersMealsCare CoordinationHotline Staffing
St. Joseph’s VillaRapid re-housing through its Flagler program. Also the lead agency of the Crater-area CACH.
ServesCrater Region Residents
OffersRapid Re-HousingCase ManagementHousing Resource Center
SupportWorks HousingStable, affordable housing combined with support services.
ServesVirginians
OffersHousingSupport Services
U.S. VETSHousing and support for at-risk and homeless veterans.
ServesVeteransLow-Income Families
OffersHousingFoodClothingMental Health SupportJob Training
WaypointGroup homes, independent living, and a specialized school for young people.
ServesYouth
OffersTransitional LivingSchool (Grades 6–12)

This is a summary of the main organizations and what each does. Programs and partners change, and not every organization takes referrals directly. All of them work through the shared process described above. Details come from each organization’s own website, so please confirm who they serve when you call.

Terms You May Hear

Emergency ShelterA short-term safe place to stay.
DiversionA conversation about other options, such as family or friends, that may keep you out of shelter.
Rapid Re-HousingShort-term help with rent and case management to move into housing.
Permanent Supportive HousingLong-term housing with support services.
Street OutreachWorkers who meet people where they are staying outside.
For parents and caregivers

Children feel this too.

Children and teens living through homelessness report more sadness, hopelessness, self-harm, and suicide attempts than their housed peers, according to CDC survey data. Students experiencing homelessness were three times as likely to attempt suicide as stably housed youth.

If a child or teen in your family is struggling, call or text 988 any time, day or night. You can do this while you wait for a housing call back. Tell a school counselor or a case manager as well.

Infographics

The system, explained by Homeward.

Homeward leads the Greater Richmond Continuum of Care and publishes free infographics that explain how the region responds to homelessness. These are the most recent and most useful ones for families.

Homeward infographic: the shelter referral process
Shelter Referral Process. Source: Homeward
Homeward infographic: people experiencing homelessness for the first time in fiscal year 2026
First-time homelessness in FY 2026. Source: Homeward
Why this matters

Housing and teen mental health.

In the CDC’s 2021 Youth Risk Behavior Survey (CDC MMWR), 2.7% of U.S. high school students were unstably housed. Among them, 44.9% had seriously considered suicide in the past year, compared with 21.8% of stably housed students, and 38.2% had attempted suicide, compared with 9.4%. The survey is a snapshot, so it cannot show that housing instability causes these outcomes. It does show how closely the two travel together, which is why a call to the lines above matters.

Where we fit

The Butterfly Project walks beside you.

We are not a shelter or a housing program, and we cannot place you in housing. What we can do is help with food, school supplies, hygiene items, warming and cooling items, and financial education while you wait and after you move. See How We Help.

My people will live in peaceful dwelling places, in secure homes, in undisturbed places of rest.Isaiah 32:18 (NIV)
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Who We Serve

Hardship rarely arrives alone.

A lost job, a lost home, and a loved one in jail or prison often land on the same family in the same year. We help with the everyday things that are hardest to cover.

  • Families without stable housing

    Parents and children staying in shelters, cars, motels, or on someone else's couch, and families one missed payment away from losing their home.

  • Low-income households

    Families who work, care for each other, and budget every week, and still cannot cover rent, food, and the basics.

  • Families impacted by incarceration

    When a parent, a child, or another family member is in jail or prison or coming home, the whole household feels it. Income drops, visits mean long trips, and children miss someone every day.

The numbers behind it

How many children are affected.

About 7% of U.S. children have had a parent in jail, and children in poverty were three times as likely to, according to PBS NewsHour (2015). That report also found the rate among Black children was twice that of white children. More recent coverage puts the number at more than 2.7 million children with a parent in jail or prison, and describes parental incarceration as a childhood trauma that calls for special support (PBS NewsHour, 2021).

How it connects

Incarceration, homelessness, and mental health are tied together.

Research on each one points to the same families. When they overlap, a child can carry all three at once.

  • Money gets tighter

    Family income was about 22% lower while a parent was incarcerated and 15% lower after re-entry. Children of incarcerated parents are also less likely to have stable housing. National Institute of Justice, 2017

  • Housing can slip away

    One large study found that recent paternal incarceration was linked to a higher risk of child homelessness by age five. Other hardships in the family played a part too. Wildeman, Fragile Families Research Brief 48, 2013

  • Children bear the weight

    Among Minnesota students, those with a currently incarcerated parent were roughly 2.5 to 4 times as likely to report self-injury, thoughts of suicide, and suicide attempts. Journal of Adolescence, 2017, via MDedge

  • Homelessness adds to it

    High school students experiencing homelessness reported more sadness, hopelessness, self-harm, and suicide attempts than housed peers in CDC survey data, and were three times as likely to attempt suicide. SchoolHouse Connection, citing CDC

  • The burden is not shared equally

    In 2007 data, Black children were 7.5 times and Hispanic children 2.3 times as likely as white children to have an incarcerated parent. National Institute of Justice, 2017

Why a butterfly
A butterfly does not skip the hard part. It needs safety and time while it changes.

The families we work with are in the middle of change. Our job is to make that stretch safer, steadier, and less lonely, so that the next chapter is one they get to write.

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Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.Matthew 25:40 (NIV)
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How We Help

Practical support, close to home.

We focus on the everyday things that are hardest to cover when money is tight and life has been upended.

Food

Food for families, so a meal is one less thing to worry about.

School supplies

Supplies that help children start the school year ready to learn.

Hygiene items

Personal care basics that help families feel clean, healthy, and confident.

Warming and cooling items

Things that help families stay safe through cold winters and hot summers.

Financial education

Education that helps families build skills and confidence with money.

What we don't offer

We do not provide housing or financial assistance at this time. Our financial support is education.

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Why it helps

Small things take weight off a child.

When a family’s income drops after a parent is incarcerated (by about 22%, according to the National Institute of Justice), the basics are the first things to go. Food, school supplies, and clean clothes are never small to a child.

Research on Minnesota students found that feeling close to a parent or caregiver was protective against the mental health risks of having an incarcerated parent. When a family is less stretched, caregivers have more room to be present.

Dignity In Every Gift

Always unexpired, clean, and new.

Every donation we accept and every item we give is unexpired, clean, and new.

Being in need does not mean needing someone else’s discards. Every person deserves to feel like a person who matters, and that starts with having something they can call their own.

Community Moments

Giving, gratitude, and the people behind it.

The partners who make these moments possible are listed in the carousel at the bottom of this page. Let’s pour into them just like they pour into others!

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Why the basics matter

Everyday costs add up fast.

A household loses more than one-fifth of its income when a parent is imprisoned (PBS NewsHour, 2016), so groceries and school supplies can be the first things to slip. Teachers and support staff say they struggle to meet the needs of students affected by a parent’s incarceration (PBS NewsHour, 2019).

And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.Hebrews 13:16 (NIV)
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Get Involved

Help a family keep its footing.

Whether you can give, volunteer, or open a door, there is a place for you in this work.

Change a Life

Your gift puts food, school supplies, hygiene items, and seasonal necessities in a family's hands.

Donate

Volunteer

Give your time to pack and sort supplies, or to help share financial education with families.

Tell Us You're Interested

Partner with us

Faith communities, schools, employers, and agencies can help us reach more families and keep supplies moving.

Start a Conversation
Volunteer Options

Host a donation drive!

Whether you are an individual, a church, or a corporation, a donation drive of essential items is always helpful. All items must be brand new.

Individuals

Gather friends, family, neighbors, or coworkers for a small drive. Even one tote bag or one coat makes a difference.

Churches

Turn a Sunday, a ministry, or a small group into a drive that lifts up neighbors in need.

Corporations

Make it a team project. Drives are a great way to bring employees together around a shared goal.

Ready to host a drive? Tell Us About It.

Highest Need

The hardest items to receive.

These are the items we most struggle to receive and need the most. Precooked food is best, because many people coming out of traumatic situations do not have the energy or skills to cook.

Coats And Cold-Weather Gear

Coats for parents and children, for ages 0 to 50, plus scarves, hats, gloves, and hand warmers.

Thanksgiving Dinner Kits

Precooked holiday dinners so families can sit down to a real meal.

Christmas Dinner Kits

Precooked holiday dinners so families can sit down to a real meal.

Harvest Festival Kits

Candy, costumes, and pizza, so children can enjoy the fun of the season.

Kits For Neighbors In Need

Kits for people living in shelter or on the street.

Every kit must be packed in a tote bag so it is easy to carry and can be reused. All items must be brand new.

  • A blanket
  • Deodorant
  • Men’s body spray
  • Women’s body spray
  • Bathing wipes
  • Baby wipes
  • Alcohol or disinfectant wipes
  • Hand sanitizer
  • Soap or body wash
  • Shampoo
  • Conditioner
  • Dry shampoo
  • Comb and brush
  • Bonnet, head scarf, or durag
  • Lotion
  • Vaseline
  • Lip balm
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Mouthwash
  • Floss
  • Bathroom tissue (toilet paper)
  • Pocket-sized tissues
  • Hand warmers
  • Cooling towels or hand coolers
  • Socks

Questions about building a kit? Contact Us.

Giving Days

Pledge ahead for a day that matters.

Pick a giving day, speak with your team, and plan to make a pledge to change lives!

Coldest Night of the Year (CNOY)

A family-friendly winter fundraising walk in support of local charities. Great for corporate teams! Next walk: Sat, Feb 27, 2027. Make your pledge now!

DAF Day

A day for donors to recommend gifts from their donor-advised funds. Next: .

Giving Tuesday

A global day of generosity on the Tuesday after Thanksgiving. Next: .

Talk to your team and plan to make a pledge to change lives! Individual pledge links for each giving day are coming soon.

Please note: Thanksgiving and Christmas donations are dispersed the week before each holiday. Our office is closed the entire week of Thanksgiving, from December 24 through January 2 (we return January 3), and from July 18 through 27. Back to school dates shown are for Central Virginia districts, including Richmond Public Schools, Chesterfield, Henrico, Hanover, and the Petersburg area (Petersburg, Colonial Heights, Dinwiddie, Prince George, and Hopewell). Most districts begin in mid to late August, year-round schools begin in late July, and spring classes begin in early January. Exact dates change each year, so please check your district’s calendar.

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    Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.Galatians 6:9 (NIV)
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    Talk to a person.

    Ask for support, offer your time, or find out how to give. We read every message.

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    Tell us you’re interested.

    Want to volunteer, host a donation drive, partner with us, or ask a question? Send us a message and we will get back to you.

    Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.Matthew 7:7 (NIV)
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